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Letting the past poison the present

Administrator — Mon, 06 Feb 2012 06:00:00 +0000

I would like advice on how I can keep my girlfriend’s imperfect past in proper perspective without letting it destroy our present relationship or it’s future potential. Here is the situation:

An old friend from work and I began a hot and steamy relationship as we ended long-time marriages. In short, we were each other’s rebound relationship. Like many rebound relationships, ours was full of passion, reborn spirit, and intense desires on many levels. We were

Events similar to his past cheating have me concerned

Administrator — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 06:00:00 +0000

Background- 5 years ago my boyfriend had an ongoing secret relationship with another woman. I found out and after 4 years together we separated for 3 months. We got back together. Things have been great, my trust was at 99%, he could go out whenever he wanted, and he always answered his phone. We only ever argued over things like housework... although those arguments could get heated.

He recently changed cell phone providers and I helped

Problems in our relationship - little sex and he's flirting with others

Administrator — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 06:00:00 +0000

My boyfriend of 2.5 years whom I live with has recently been talking with other women (3 different instances as far as I know). We have always been a healthy happy couple until his grandfather passed away (1.5 years in). He began to pull away from our relationship emotionally and our sex life went from 1 or 2 times a week to once per month or 6 weeks. He was very close to his grandfather

Step-daughters lying is causing problems in my marriage

Administrator — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 06:00:00 +0000

My daughter, who is 15 years old, has been lying to us. We confronted her about a missing Itouch, but she denied taking it. I told her that I don't care about the Itouch missing I just want her to tell the truth.

I told her I saw the itouch on top the speaker when I woke up that morning but vanished when I went upstairs to turn off the Itouch.

I was having my breakfast downstairs

My boyfriend read my text messages and broke up with me

Administrator — Sun, 27 Nov 2011 06:00:00 +0000

Wow, Where do I start? I am not married, my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. Eight months into it he moved across country. We decided to remain in a relationship, but during some conversations on the phone, I got mixed messages about where we were headed in our relationship.

I made the mistake of getting back in contact with some old txt buddies that I use to chat with before I